Every day I walk with a trunk for exercising. I was walking with the trunk when I heard laughing behind me. There were two little boys standing and one of them was laughing because of the way I was walking.
I don’t how to handle these situations. If it happens for very short time, I can try to ignore it. I have no idea what I can do if I’m between few people and a child starts laughing at me.
I tell you about an incident. My cousin’s husband was standing near me with his two daughters. He was carrying his younger daughter. The elder daughter had her mother’s hand bag in her hand and she started hitting me with the hand bag. I expected his father to stop her but he kept ignoring. After some time I took the bag from her and I told her that I won’t give it back. I didn’t say that in strict or serious voice. She told her father that uncle isn’t giving her bag then he paid attention and said to her that uncle will give it back. I gave her bag back after she asked me few times.
It’s very embarrassing if it happens with you and at that time you are around 26 years old. Things like it reminds you of what you don’t have. It reminds you of what you can never have. It reminds you of how unlucky you are.
I like children. I don’t dislike children for things like it. I think parents should intervene and handle the situations like it. And perhaps I also need to learn what I should do in situations like it. Now I think taking the hand bag was the good idea, but I didn’t feel confident at that time. And I won’t be able to do something like it every time because I have very weak hands. Do you have any suggestion what I can do in situations like it?
I know that it’ll happen a lot and I’ll have to face it. It hurts a lot if it happens for even few seconds or perhaps I’m trying to be very special.
I’m not very good at English, but I’m trying to make it better. So, someday I’ll rewrite it.
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